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We just got back from a family vacation to Galveston. To say my kids were underwhelmed is and understatement (well, the 9yo had a blast, he jumps head-first into everything, but I digress). They did not enjoy the beach, it smelled. The water was too salty… it went on and on. At first, I got a little annoyed, but while they didn’t seem to enjoy the locale, they didn’t fight—which is rare. They all played together and a couple of times I’d catch them just sitting together and talking.
It got me to thinking back to my family vacations. The last one I remember was when I was twelve—it was a lo-ong trip that encompassed many states (7 for sure that I recall). What I remember most though, was when we went to Dodge City. At the time I was mad. I didn’t want to be there. It was hot being there the end of June. It was a dusty old town, with dusty old stuff. And our guide dressed up in period cowboy garb made me roll my eyes a time or three. I was working my way into the teen years running with my fists clenched. Just for giggles, picture a girl in the wild west wearing parachute pants, with a bandana tied at the thigh and a florescent blue tank top.
Now, as a grown woman and a mom, I think back on that trip rather fondly. I can remember many of the things we saw at Boot Hill. Even the guide makes me smile rocking his Sam Elliot mustache—I wish my mom had a pic of him, but alas it’s lost. The one thing that always stuck out over the years were the tombstones. Even at twelve, I whipped up tales as to what killed this cowboy or that (usually it was over the love of a women…). I guess I always had the writer’s bent years before I had the writer’s bent. My only regret was that I didn’t get into it more, that I didn’t understand, or care, about the history I was seeing. I’d like to go back, I think it would be so cool to *really* get lost in past.
Nowadays, when I write about my cowboys, I can think back on walking down Front Street and shift to what the wild west was like. And I can then fast forward to what that same town (whatever town fiction or real I pick) is like now. How it changed around the people. How the people changed around it. And how all that plays into the lives of my characters (I do tend to equate everything to writing one way or another—I may have mentioned that before ). That one vacation, the one that I was angry about being on, the one that I dragged my feet at every tourist attraction and historical site, became a way for me to connect to my stories so many years later. I can only hope that when my boys grow up into men, they will think back on our trip to Galveston and remember it fondly and if one or two end up becoming writers, they can use that for inspiration.
So tell me, did you take any family vacations that at the time seemed like it was the worst thing ever (especially in those oh-so-lovely teenage years) and later you wish you’d been less-grumpy? Was there a vacation that you used your mental filing cabinet later in life to fill in for something?
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